• A pessary can help with incontinence
    Incontinence Products

    A Pelvic Pressing Pessary

    While most everyone knows about products for incontinence like pads and disposable underwear, eventually your Google search will lead you down the pessary rabbit hole. You’ve likely landed on this page because you’re looking into different solutions for bladder leaks. So, hey there. And Welcome. We’ve got you covered. Here’s the scoop on pessaries, including the pros and cons of using one. What Is A Pessary? A “pessary” is a firm ring that is inserted into the vagina and presses against the urethra. This pressing provides support to the urethra, helping limit the number of bladder leaks that occur throughout the day. Pessaries are usually made out of medical grade…

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    Incontinence

    3 Reasons To Hop In The Pool

    Summer is such a great season. Camping trips, barbecues, and water parks are all so much fun. Well, water parks can be fun – unless you feel self-conscious about your bladder leaking. For women with leaky laughs and dribble dilemmas, swimming is a tricky proposition because taking a bladder leak pad in the pool doesn’t really work. Luckily, you don’t need to avoid water slides and lazy rivers because of your bladder. Here are 3 reasons why. 1. Pools Have Chlorine You might see signs at some pools saying they require a sort of waterproof swim diaper to prevent contamination. You’re probably thinking “No way, absolutely not, never going to…

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    Incontinence

    Eh, What’s Up Doc?

    As you’re sitting in front of your doctor under the eerie fluorescent lights, you begin to shift on the exam table. You’re twiddling your thumbs, wondering if you should tell them about the spontaneous spritz you’ve been experiencing lately. You ask yourself, “is it really that big of a deal?” and brush it off as something to bring up next time. Then next time comes around and you push it off once more. Or maybe you’ve never thought to tell your doctor about your leaks about it in the first place. Maybe you’ve chalked it up as a natural part of aging and have found your own solutions. (But wads…

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    Wonder Women

    When Every Day Is A Mix Of Emotions

    Here at Lily Bird, we feature personal stories written by smarty pants women from our community. That’s because telling your bladder who’s boss is better as a team sport. These women get you. They’re in your corner. And they’re here to remind you that your body isn’t broken. Hey, bodies age, bladders leak, and movie sequels bomb. Right? This week our good friend Liz gets real about pelvic prolapse, leaking, and coming to terms with her postpartum body. _____________ Hi; I’m Liz. The first thing that comes to mind if you were to ask me what I did today would be that I peed myself. Yes, that, over an awesome…

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    Incontinence

    Own The Throne (And Your Bad Habits)

    Here at Lily Bird we feature stories written by smarty pants women from our community. That’s because telling your bladder who’s boss is better as a team sport. These women get you. They’re in your corner. And they’re here to remind you that your body isn’t broken. Hey, bodies age, bladders leak, and movie sequels bomb. Right? If you’re ready to stop praying to the porcelain gods, our friend Marla is here with advice that will help you own the throne. _____________ A long-distance car ride, or even tent camping, always reminds me how much that little organ known as the bladder controls my life. Those activities often trigger “just…

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    When Leaks Become Rich And Famous

    Here at Lily Bird, we feature personal stories written by smarty pants women from our community. That’s because telling your bladder who’s boss is better as a team sport. These women get you. They’re in your corner. And they’re here to remind you that your body isn’t broken. Hey, bodies age, bladders leak, and movie sequels bomb. Right? Sumita’s got us covered this week with a story about what happens when leaks get their 15 minutes of fame. _____________ Okay… I’ll confess. I love being called a hotshot editor. And, why not?! After all, I’m heading one of the most popular film and glamor magazines in the country. So obviously,…

  • a menstural pad isn't a great option for incontinence
    Incontinence Products

    Why That Pantyliner Is A Terrible Idea

    When you first experience a bladder leak, it’s easy to mistake it for your run-of-the-mill vaginal discharge. And a quick check underneath the sink will produce a pantyliner or menstrual pad, sending you on your merry way on that leisurely bike ride you have planned. Until you realize that the pantyliner isn’t doing the job, and it’s actually your bladder leaking. It may be tempting to upgrade to a maxi pad to help with incontinence, but we’ve got the scoop on why that isn’t your best bet for telling your bladder who’s boss. 3 Reasons To Swap Out That Pantyliner We’ve got you covered with the top 3 reasons why…

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    Incontinence

    The Case Against Just In Case Peeing

    Here at Lily Bird we feature stories written by smarty pants women from our community. That’s because telling your bladder who’s boss is better as a team sport. These women get you. They’re in your corner. And they’re here to remind you that your body isn’t broken. Hey, bodies age, bladders leak, and movie sequels bomb. Right? If your mama ever told you to “go, pee, just in case,” then our friend Marla is here to tell you why sometimes it’s a good idea to ignore mom’s advice. _____________ Do you ever go to the bathroom and then find yourself there again 10 minutes later because you’re heading out on…

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    Wonder Women

    What Peeing Into A Bottle Can Teach Us All

    Here at Lily Bird, we feature personal stories written by smarty pants women from our community. That’s because telling your bladder who’s boss is better as a team sport. These women get you. They’re in your corner. And they’re here to remind you that your body isn’t broken. Hey, bodies age, bladders leak, and movie sequels bomb. Right? This week Akanksha’s here to tell us what peeing into a bottle can teach us all. _____________ It started on a drive from White Plains to Brooklyn. My sister and her fiancé were in the front two seats and the last rest-stop was half an hour ago. I’d started the morning (like…

  • skin irritation from urine leaks can be embarrassing
    Incontinence

    What’s Red And Scaly And Dry And Bumpy All Over?

    Sit, drip, sting, cringe! If you’re dealing with bladder leaks, this might be a scenario that’s familiar to you. One moment you’re minding your business and the next, it’s like “oh, bother!” Do you know what I’m talking about? Depending on your answer, you’re either wearing the perplexed face right now or nodding your head in agreement. Either way, I’ve got some deets to share. I’m about to shed light on a little secret that comes with incontinence. Are you ready? I’ll take “What’s Skin Irritation From Urine Leakage?” for $100 Rashes suck. They’re red, scaly, dry, and bumpy – the perfect combination of annoying. And if you’ve ever had…