• Wonder Women

    A Story About Having To GO

    Here at Lily Bird, we feature personal stories written by smarty pants women from our community. That’s because telling your bladder who’s boss is better as a team sport. These women get you. They’re in your corner. And they’re here to remind you that your body isn’t broken. Hey, bodies age, bladders leak, and movie sequels bomb. Right? This week Rebecca’s here to tell us about all the weird places she’s peed during a lifetime of frequent urination issues, stemming from trauma and exacerbated by substance abuse (she’s now sober). _____________ It is a rare occurrence when I don’t have to pee. I’ve never worried about frequent urination as an…

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    Incontinence

    Spilling The Tea on Staying Social With Leaks

    Isn’t it amazing how 25 to 45 percent of us women deal with bladder leaks but somehow we still feel alone? It’s because  leaks are still considered a taboo topic that warrant side eyes, raised brows, and whispers. So we don’t tell anybody. We don’t tell our doctors, our family, or our friends, and we live in silence. And as a result, we stop doing the  things that we enjoy. But do we really have to? Coping Strategies for Staying Social Your social life shouldn’t come to a stop because of a little spritz every now and again. But we know that’s way easier said than done. Let’s keep you…

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    Incontinence

    Surviving Seasonal Allergies: As Carefree As A Zyrtec Commercial

    We can all appreciate that spring is on the way, especially if you’ve experienced a bitter, cold winter or more rain than you ever thought could fall from the sky. But, warmer temperatures and blossoming flowers brings with them a few friends. Dare I say, pollen? Dust mites, is that you? In all seriousness, seasonal allergies are a real bother, especially if you feel like you have to cross your legs every time you sneeze to keep the drips and dribbles in instead of running down your leg (ugh, incontinence). Fortunately, there are a few ways to control leaks so that having seasonal allergies is as carefree as a Zyrtec…

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    Incontinence

    The Doctor Is Ready To See You Now

    Here at Lily Bird we like to bring in the heavy hitters so you all get expertise and advice from the best of the best. That’s because telling your bladder who’s boss is better as a team sport. This week’s article is from our friends at the National Center for Continence. Thanks to Sarah for the collaboration. ______________ Talking about incontinence is hard. Like, really hard. We understand that it can be embarrassing to bring up. But if there’s anyone who understands, it’s your doctor. She has likely counseled many women before you and knows the toll unexpected leaks can take. So it’s time to put your fears aside and…

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    Bladder Blog

    7 Natural Remedies For UTIs

    In the last few years, holistic healing has become all the rage. You’re probably interested in it too and might not even know it. Think about it. I bet you’ve felt sick before and tried to think of ways you can “naturally” remedy the situation. You probably thought about the old (and sometimes bizarre) remedies your parents or grandparents used to tell you about…that actually worked. But did they ever mention any natural remedies for UTIs (urinary tract infections)? Probably not. Good news: we’ve got you covered. 7 Natural Remedies For UTIs UTI’s suck. They burn, sting, and sometimes they even stink, which is why this topic is so important.…

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    Incontinence

    Strong Armstrong: When Your Pelvic Floor Goes Hypertonic

    Around here we talk a lot about pelvic floors being loosey goosey. So would you believe me if I told you that your pelvic floor can become too tight? Turns out, it’s pretty darn possible. You might hear it called pelvic floor hypertonia or a hypertonic pelvic floor. I know we’re always told to practice our Kegels so we can snapback, but sometimes the desired snapback is actually a clap back. When The Snapback Goes Wrong If you deal with the occasional spritz, you’ve probably been told or read somewhere that you should try Kegels. Next thing you know you’re doing Kegels everywhere. You’re secretly squeezing your pelvic floor muscles…

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    Sex

    9 Ways To Keep Your Sex Life Steamy Post Menopause

    Oh, menopause. How we side eye thee. You’re known for the miraculous changes you bring on. You know… the lack of sleep, a few bladder leaks (pssst…Lily Bird can help with that), unforgivable droughts, and subpar hanky-panky. Ladies, you know what I’m talking about! While we’ve touched on most of these topics relating to menopause before, we haven’t talked about how menopause affects the sack and what you can do about it. So, let’s chat about ways to heat things up after menopause so you can keep living your best life. Stella Got Her Groove Back And So Can You Menopause brings with it some natural changes that are completely…

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    Incontinence

    Diabetes & Leaks: Connecting Sugar And Spritz

    Some health issues seem to go together like peanut butter and jelly. But a lot less delicious, of course. And bladder leaks are no different. If you need to know where the bathroom is everywhere you go or are you barely making it to the bathroom once you get the urge and you also have diabetes, you’re not alone. There is a connection between diabetes and incontinence. While the exact link between the two is unknown, I’ll shed some light on some possible reasons why leakage is more common for diabetics. What is Diabetes? Did you know that there are several types of diabetes? When most people talk about diabetes,…

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    Wonder Women

    An Unlikely Audience: Our Littles

    Here at Lily Bird, we feature personal stories written by smarty pants women from our community. That’s because telling your bladder who’s boss is better as a team sport. These women get you. They’re in your corner. And they’re here to remind you that your body isn’t broken. Hey, bodies age, bladders leak, and movie sequels bomb. Right? This week Lindsay’s here to combat the stigma around leaks by talking to an unlikely audience…our kids. Take it away, Lindsay. _____________ “Mom, why do you cross your legs every time you sneeze?” my 5-year-old daughter asked innocently. Is it that obvious?, I wondered silently to myself. My daughter doesn’t miss a…

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    Mind & Mood

    Meditation 101: Joining The Woo-Sah Wave

    If you aren’t a meditation guru already, then you’re probably visualizing a cross-legged Buddhist monk in the mountains,  sitting extremely upright with their palms facing up. Lesson one of meditation: that’s called the lotus position. But, meditation is a lot more than tangling your legs into a pretzel while chanting “ohmmm.” It’s becoming popular but it’s also highly misunderstood, just like an angsty teenager. Fortunately, we’re here to help a sister out. We’ll teach you what it is and how it can help you. After all, in case you haven’t heard, anxiety and leaks kind of go together like PB&J or Sunny and Cher. And knowing a little meditation might…